How to Deal with Autistic Family Members?

July 21, 2025

Supporting an autistic family member starts with understanding and acceptance. Autism affects communication, social interactions, and sensory processing, so patience and empathy go a long way.

Here are a few ways to help:


  1. Learn about autism – Understanding their unique needs and triggers can improve your relationship.

  2. Respect their routines – Many autistic individuals feel more secure with structure and predictability.

  3. Communicate clearly – Use simple, direct language and give extra time for processing.

  4. Create a sensory-friendly environment – Reduce overwhelming sounds, lights, or crowds when possible.

  5. Celebrate their strengths – Focus on what they enjoy and excel at, encouraging their interests.


Most importantly, avoid trying to “fix” them. Instead, offer support that helps them thrive while honoring their individuality.


Need professional guidance? At Divine Steps ABA, we work with families to improve communication, build life skills, and reduce stress at home. 



Contact us today to learn how our ABA therapy services in Maryland, Virginia, and North Carolina can support your family!


SOURCES:


https://www.mayinstitute.org/news/acl/asd-and-dd-adult-focused/tips-for-talking-to-adults-on-the-autism-spectrum/


https://me.health.gov.il/en/mental-health/information-and-updates/autism/autistic-family-member/


https://giveusashout.org/latest/how-support-autistic-person/


https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/family-life-and-relationships/family-life


https://www.milestones.org/get-started/for-community-at-large/interacting-with-autistic-people

Looking for Guidance?

We're Here for You!

Our dedicated professionals are committed to helping your child thrive. Connect with us to learn how our ABA therapy can make a difference.


Get In Touch With Our ABA Experts Today

Contact Us
A BCBA playfully interacting with a toddler with autism wearing pink headphones in ABA therapy.
December 1, 2025
Explore real ABA therapy challenges, from behavior hurdles to consistency issues. Get clarity, solutions, and guidance for supporting your child’s growth.
A BCBA clapping and encouraging a toddler with autism standing on a couch.
November 30, 2025
ABA therapy supports children with a wide range of conditions. Discover how ABA helps with autism, ADHD, anxiety, and more in our parent-friendly guide.
A BCBA and a young boy with autism happily play with a stacking toy in a living room.
November 28, 2025
Stopping ABA therapy too soon can lead to skill regression and behavioral setbacks. Learn the importance of continued support for lasting progress in therapy.
Show More