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My Child Repeats Phrases, How Should I Respond?
February 17, 2026
When children repeat phrases, parents often wonder if it’s simply a habit or something more. In autism, this repetition called echolalia, can serve important purposes. It may help children process language, practice communication, or express emotions when they don’t yet have the words to explain how they feel.
Parents can respond by first recognizing echolalia as a communication tool, not just a behavior. Instead of discouraging it, try to model clear, simple language. For example, if your child repeats “Want juice?” After you say it, you can hand them juice and say, “Yes, you want juice.” This helps connect the phrase to meaning. Over time, ABA therapy uses structured strategies to guide children from repeating words toward using them independently and functionally.
It’s also important to be patient. Repetition may feel unusual, but it’s often a stepping stone toward stronger communication skills. With consistent support, children can learn to use language more flexibly and confidently.
At Divine Steps ABA, we are serving families, and we help parents through ABA therapy programs in Maryland, Virginia, and North Carolina understand behaviors like echolalia and build strategies that support growth.
Learn how we can strengthen your child’s communication. Contact us today!
SOURCES:
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/echolalia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Echolalia
https://www.webmd.com/parenting/what-is-echolalia
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK565908/
https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/psychology/echolalia
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